Well it cant all be great...

Well it cant all be great…

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Well it cant all be great…

September 24, 2010 in Uncategorized

Well like my title says it cant all be great. I've writen about my now ex boyfriend saying that he was an "amazing" guy and he was the best thing that happen to me. I was so wrong. A couple of weeks after I wrote that things went down hill with our relationship.... and it just ended, He lied a lot about what he thought of me. The night we broke i found out that threw out the 5 months we were together he was cheating on me.... I felt like it was my fault... I was so hurt and torn with everything that his best friend told me the nght we broke up. My ex didn't have the guts to tell me face to face so he sent his friend... to do his work. I spent a lot of time with his friend, he was there for me and really good to me he turned out to be one of my closes friends and we were always seen together. For a while i had a huge crush on him :) but i didnt know if he felt the same... well one day he and i were sitting In his car and i was venting about how i thought i embarassed my ex and how i thought even though he asked about me drinking my milk and if i was eating right there still was something up... Ray ( my ex's friend) grabed my hand and said, " I... I need to tell you something." I knew right then and there that My pku embaressed him and he lied about it. Ray said that he would get phone calls of my ex venting about how he hated being with someone who couldn't be "normal." I found out from my ex that was the reson why he cheated on me. He wanted someone he wouldn't be embarassed with when he went on dates. I will admit i get weird looks when I order a fries and a salad but im use to it, i just tell them i have pku. I was very hurt that he said that... But when i asked about him looking out for me with my diet he said, I didnt care it was Ray texting you, just off my phone. Instantly i left and went to Rays house and huged him. Telling him thank you for looking out for me and always listing to my B.S. He knows he is a great guy, and I feel so greatful i have someone in my life that looks out for me like that and isent lying about caring about my diet... Well its about.... hmmm 3 1/2 months since this all happen... and since then Ray is my new boyfriend, I guess ever since the night my ex broke my heart and ray was there for me I've always liked him. But i fell in love once i found out he was the one making sure i was doing good on my diet.... Its kinda cool that I have a boyfriend that makes me a veggie dinner and orders me dinner when we go out. Every night at 2am i get a call asking if i've drank my milk. he also looks up and reserches pku so he knows how to take care of me. :) it makes me very happy that even though it can be hard to deal with, he still looks at me the same and showes me off and tells his friends and family he is dating a girl with pku then tells them about it, even if they dont want to hear it :)

8 Reviews of Well it cant all be great…

  1. Registered: Sep 8, 2009

    Posts: 0

    , Washington

    wow thats so cool sounds like you have found a good one

  2. Registered: Jul 29, 2010

    Posts: 0

    Plainfield, Illinois

    Its not your fault, you didn’t decided to have PKU. That guy was just a jerk, there are a lot of guys in the world who are mean and that was one of them. i’m glad you found someone else, he sounds really nice. I’ve never heard of a guy that would do so much for you, he must be very special.

  3. Registered: Apr 24, 2009

    Posts: 0

    Cornwall, New York

    forget your ex — don’t waste another breath on him! Good luck with your new guy — very lucky to have a supportive boyfriend! :)

  4. Registered: Aug 11, 2009

    Posts: 0

    , Utah

    Yeah he’s a keeper lol how i can tell he is sitting next to me looking at me and saying drink your milk lol

  5. Registered: Dec 6, 2009

    Posts: 0

    Thessaloniki, INTERNATIONAL

    He’s probably in love with you, it’s great he’s supportive. But, no matter what your special diet is, you look so pretty , you deserve it. You should think highly of yourself and not let the others make you believe your something difficult to deal with. Not even hung to the new guy just because of your special diet. Maybe I’m not the one to speak , since I don’ t have the PKU experience. But first, think you deserve the best for your own!

  6. Registered: Sep 12, 2006

    Posts: 0

    Franklin, Wisconsin

    Unfortunately there will always be people in this world that aren’t worth our time. Forget about them and focus on the people that actually care about you. Good luck with the new boyfriend :).

  7. Registered: Nov 7, 2010

    Posts: 0

    Nanaimo, British Columbia

    Thats great that you have an understanding significant other. I noticed you called it your “milk”. I wonder how many other terms patients use for it. Personally to myself I just call it my meds. But when I was younger it was referred to as my formula.

  8. Registered: Aug 11, 2009

    Posts: 0

    , Utah

    well i called it my Formula for a long time then people started calling me baby bunny… cause i eat veggies and drink “formula” so i just started callin it my milk

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